Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard

Based on the on going proceedings in the court for I guess some 3 months now. I believe both were kinda strong built characters that brought them together as a daring couple. And those Daring couple kinda seems like were enjoying kinky sex too. With that one of the act could be that bottle thing... Just think about it, when a couple does some weird stuff in their personal space as a matter of pleasure and when that has been put to use as a point in the public to accuse them of violence that too "sexual violence" would rage the other a lot. So, I guess that's what Heard did to Depp. 

Heard's side could be: 

          On the other hand Heard seems like someone who would like a company of a sweet guy yet daring to accompany her on her desires by being a " manly " man. 

(But every girls should understand this, you can't get both that's the reality, better wrap your head around that fact, either he's sweet and less daring (or) daring and manly but way less considerate and sweet !! It's kinda impossible to get both in one!)

          To me she seems like a sweet person who had some kinky side yet a sweet, fun loving and vibrant kinda person. But her expectations from Depp to be sweet in public as well kinky in personal space same like her didn't go well. 

 

         All she got from Depp was more manly man and that person who would vanish when she pressures him to be around like a typical husband, which made him feel suffocated. And he ran off to either drugs at his own place or to some other place to release his pressure from his marriage. 

Depp's idea of Heard : 

             A 48 year old guy who feel for a young 26 year old young, vibrant, eccentric girl who kept up with his phase in professional as well personal life made him fall bad for her. All were beautiful when their relationship was durngs, sex and luxury trips. But that all changed when those two decided to settle down for marriage. She wanted a man who would be responsible, loving and sweet as a family man. With her mentioning " be a man, Johnny " over and over in that evidence audio made me understand that she wanted him to be a good man, a responsible one, " a husband" than like a soccer team frat boy friend. She enjoyed his frat side and some of his own way of loving side, but sadly she didn't know that's all the Depp she could get from him. 

Her idea of domestic violence: 

           She clearly got hurt by her expectations on him and tried her best to bring him to track of a loving family man whom she fell in love with. And 1st of she couldn't adapt to the reality of Depp being Depp and her idea about him and their initial zing. May be she allowed him to do some stuff her just because it's enjoyable to him and making him happy made her happy. 

(But see, girls should understand this ! Unless you draw your boundaries guys wouldn't know there is any boundary at all and that might hurt the girl in longer run because guys are genetically made to spread their genesis as many number as they can and die in peace. But women are the godly species who have the innate survival instinct to live a long life to help her offspring live a healthy and comfortable life untill she dies by doing her best to her offspring) 

         She trying to cope up with his personality in a family life was really hard on Heard, especially on emotional level and physically by those kinky stuff and their games on playfully punching the other like some Teenage kids. But all she wanted was a beautiful family, her bad that her wrong choices of move for the sake of love made her go through some tought times. 

           She was emotionally already struggling to cope up with her unexpected marrige life. Which made her opt for that op-ed about ' Domestic Violence ' like a way to express her emotion but Little did she know this would become a huge thing which might make her loose trials against Depp with some financial loss too. 

Case against Depp: 

          If Heard was in right mind she wouldn't have opted to filed Depp for Domestic Violence in the first place. She was clearly struggling to wrap her mind around her new reality on her bad marriage, and if she had known better in making better choices she would have avoided so many wrong moves in love. Same way she was unclear in opting for this civil law against him. 

Because, it's very obvious anyone with huge fan base for almost 3 decades made the public fall in love with him and were clearly smitten by Depp's role. Even he could get out of a brutal murder trial with that sort of fame and financial power that he earned so far being a (not just Hollywood)Global star. 

Heard's life after this trial : 

I actually feel bad for Heard's life after this, celebrity fans are crazy especially the ones that are arden followers for decades would do anything to shame her by saying " love for Johnny " idiocracy. Because these idiots are everywhere and sensible people are like just 1/10. I got a chance to see few of her pics in insta with her daughter, she seems like a loving person who was whole heartedly looking forward for a loving and a caring family. She herself seem like a kid with playful heart, seems like she would be in good hands with a responsible and loving partner. I hope she's left alone to be happy with her daughter and move on with her life from these Depp's craziness. And I believe with such a bad hit in her life, god will give her huge! by giving her and her daughter a great partner as wonderful lead to their family, who would love them both unconditionally. 

Heard seems like a strong person. I know she will live through this for her best phases in life to come for 💙.